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Question about Fidelity

by Laura
(Mount Jackson, VA)

Question: Is he cheating on me? -Laura
Answer: Hi Laura. To me, the fact that you are asking this question shows that their are communication issues and trust issues in your relationship.

Has he given you a reason to suspect that he may be unfaithful to you?

It may be time to work on redeveloping trust and open, emotional communication with your partner. I would suggest, instead of wondering and keeping yourself in a state of distrust, simply ask him outright.

It may be a time of tear-shedding, but since you have this fear honest, loving confrontation will help to either mend your relationship or reveal that the two of you are no longer traveling the same path together.

To foster open communication with your partner invest in two pieces of sodalite crystal. Here's what you do.

1) Ask him for a sitdown to talk about your relationship.

2) Have him hold one sodalite and you hold the other.

3) Ask him directly and honestly (without accusing) if he has been cheating on you.

4) If his answer is no, then it is time to have a long discussion about why you feel distrustful of him and how you want to rekindle the closeness between you both. Consider getting the book called "Getting the Love you Want" by Harville Hendrix. It helps couples rebuild communication and develop stronger relationships.

5) If his answer is yes, then it is time for a long heart to heart about whether the relationship between you both is worth salvaging and whether you both want to. A strong commitment to each other will be necessary to rebuild the relationship. Do a lot of joint work with heart chakra and rose quartz energy to rebuild your heart centers together.

6) If his answer is no to the initial question of cheating, but you think he is lying, it's time for you to reconsider this relationship. Do you want to be with a man who you feel is lying to you? Does he fulfill you on a deep spiritual level or has the relationship turned in to something that feels "safe"? Honesty is a cornerstone for a solid relationship. If you feel he is dishonest and won't change his ways it may be time to move on. Invest in some tigers eye to rebuild your solar chakra and regain personal power.

Many blessings and good luck in your relationship.

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